There are many people who have these traits, as part of their make up. I can think of many off the top of my head, but there is one person who encompasses 'Mr Excuses,' in every respect. He was another one of those people who was not what he seemed.
Meeting him in the most dubious of circumstances. Someone who took complete advantage of myself and my partner. A liar, able to turn on the tears at the drop of a hat. A character who always blames someone else, even though you know the truth, and he knows it. Transparent, completely obvious and see-through. A person with no back bone, sense of decency or honour!
Living in a house, with a number of different people can be hard. It is one of the reasons I refuse to do it, both now or in the future. Sometimes you feel you have to take part in socialising, when you would rather not. Sometimes you can be forced into doing something you don't want to do. Equally you can look down your nose at others and believe you are right. What you can not do, is blame others, constantly for your failings, and try and lie your way out of situations. As a transparent, unambiguous, unmistakable and unsophisticated liar, be sure your sins will find you out!
Being made to feel sorry for someone who in reality is nothing more, than just a good actor, was yet another one of my failings. To listen to the pouring out of a heart, from a person, who quite frankly was a proven liar, was my fault. I suppose when you are vulnerable, you are taken in much more easily. I believed him as much as my partner and others, because we had seen him slump and end up a shell of his former self. We have all had rough times and bad memories to contend with, but if you truly believe others are responsible, you would not go straight back into the Lions Den!
You can not blame other people for everything that goes wrong in your life, when you do nothing to solve your own problems. Friends supported you in the past, but not any more. Why would we support someone who took advantage of our kind nature as well as far worse situations, that I do not want to print. Why would we ever go out of our way to help a failure, who has just put themselves right back into situations they said helped to destroy them in the past. We wouldn't, never will again and will be there saying I told you so, and relish in that phrase, in the future!
No more excuses, no more whining, no more lies and excuses. You are the one responsible for your life, no one else. accept all your failures, stop the blame game and I am glad you are no longer in my life. My life is far better off without you!
Mr Excuses. Another one to be avoided!