Just got off the phone, from a very important person in the Bipolar world. After explaining what was going on in my life right now and now ready to confront and expose, I found his help invaluable. He has read about situations of a similar nature to mine, nothing involving their partner as well and nothing compares to the extent that someone had infiltrated throughout our entire life.
I was warned of various complications, that could occur, but in general, I was told, that if I wanted closure, this was the only course of action available to me. They offered their complete support at this time.
When you feel like the world is against you, don't dwell on the past. The best thing you can do, is pick up the pieces and do what you can to put them back together again.